The light of debt
— January 28, 2017The pitch in her voice began to escalate. The words were coming faster and faster in frantic disjointed
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Light isn’t lost. It is stolen.
— November 1, 2016I used to pride myself on the company I kept. “Your friends are a bunch of assholes.” I would
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So The Old Could Fade
— November 24, 2015The moment we connected is lost to time. You are born with a limited amount of space and as the…
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Living With The Heartbreak
— September 2, 2015My grandfather was a kind and gentle man. He was kind in the way TV grandfathers treat their grandkids
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The End And On To The Beginning
— August 25, 2015So I guess this is a good time to let you all know that I will be shutting down the…
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Why No One Can Handle Me
— August 16, 2015She hopped in my car as fast as possible while trying to escape the rain that was coming down in…
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The Least Likely To Change
— August 12, 2015I was sitting on the couch in my sweatpants catching up on my DVR when my phone lit up. I…
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Spite Is A Cancer
— August 11, 2015First, I want to begin by apologizing for my lack of articles. This past week was one of the most…
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You Are Not Picky.
— August 4, 2015She stared at me with contempt. Furrowed brow, pursed lips, squinting eyes. It wasn’t playful.
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Philandering Ways
— July 29, 2015It was a beautiful summer day so we sat on the outdoor patio. Surrounded by the downtown buildings and
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Respectful Fuckboys
— July 9, 2015I have a confession: I am a recovering Fuckboy. For those of you who don’t know the definition,
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Guest Writer: Keltie Knight – 16 Rules To Live By
— July 8, 2015Glamour Magazine wrote a very famous article on the things a woman should have and know by 30. It inspired
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Never Be Ashamed Of Your Enthusiasm
— July 6, 2015She sat across from me visibly uncomfortable. Eyes darting around the room then resting back at her shoes.
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On, Up, Forward, And Away
— July 3, 2015I don’t hang out with children all that often. I don’t have any, all my friends that do live
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Building A Real Person
— June 30, 2015The equally great and awful aspect of internet dating is the fact that you can be practically anonymous.
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Relationships Never Follow A Straight Line
— June 28, 2015He threw his hockey equipment in the back seat, closed the door, then hopped into my passenger seat and
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The Disconnect
— June 26, 2015There is a disconnect between generations. And while age does play into this, it is not entirely exclusive.
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The Damaged Ones
— June 23, 2015There was an air of superiority in her tone. Something that comes with being exceedingly successful in
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Thrive And Survive
— June 20, 2015I remember waking up and my mom rushing into my room and sitting down and saying, “Listen, I know
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The Expectation Of Expectations
— June 17, 2015One of the few things that I think a lot of people misunderstand about dating is expectation. From the
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Disadvantages
— June 14, 2015I opened my laptop today to do my writing and I noticed that I didn’t close out of the PDF…
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A Cold Drink
— June 12, 2015Her initial opening email made some mention about my online profile in reference to something I wrote
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Who Is In Your Corner
— June 4, 2015He stood across from me, eyes transfixed on the passing traffic. He wasn’t pausing for dramatic
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So Someone Just Cheated On You – Now What?
— May 28, 2015The entire motivation for starting this site was to put something positive back out in to the world.
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Respect The Journey
— May 23, 2015Throughout my life I have always kept a moderate to barely above average exercise regiment. I have my
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Where To Begin
— May 22, 2015I recently received an email asking me for suggestions on how to help someone connect more with her boyfriend.
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How Hard Is It To Just Lie?
— May 21, 2015I am a naturally curious person. If you have ever had the displeasure of sitting across from me over
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Managing The Crazy
— May 14, 2015Like you, I was raised with unrealistic expectations. The ideal of the perfect person is sold to us through
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A Few Seconds Longer
— May 13, 2015I remember him leaning her up against his red Ford Escort that he had bought himself from working at
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Your End Of The Bargain
— May 8, 2015I don’t remember exactly which website it was, but I do recall how intriguing I found her profile.
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The X Amount Of Expectation
— May 7, 2015We had been dating for a few months and had somehow made it past the period of being a simple…
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One Thousand First Dates
— May 6, 2015After telling someone you’ve been on over one thousand first dates, you can expect to be asked
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So You Want A Healthy Relationship?
— April 29, 2015Time has always been a constant theme in my work. It’s time to get going. It’s time to make a…
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On How To Ruin Your Girlfriend
— April 28, 2015If you’re like me, most of your relationships have failed. Maybe some were your fault, but let’s
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Successful Booty Calls
— April 23, 2015Today, I was asked to respond to this question for a website: “Basically, if you are going to do
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A Garden Does Not Grow On It’s Own
— April 22, 2015At first I thought it was a joke. Like the way you say things in the heat of the moment,…
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Deal-Breakers And Booger-Eaters
— April 21, 2015There are vast expanses of the country that don’t receive cell phone reception. Miles upon miles
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I Care That They Know That I Care
— April 20, 2015I always dread birthdays. Not because I fear arbitrary milestones or the number of times the planet has
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Red Flags And Small Men
— April 18, 2015Our lives only seem easy in retrospect. When I look back at my life I would like to think it…
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Burning Fight
— April 15, 2015It was late, probably two or three in the morning and my depression was weighing heavy. In retrospect,
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